Ty and Jesse,
I have learned valuable life lessons during my time on earth. Many times those teachings have come at a personal price. As I close in on my 50th birthday, I want to provide you guidance. It should be expected that you will experience disappointment, frustration and anger during your lives. My objective is to provide you the perspective of a seasoned human who happens to be your dad.
- Love one another and remain good friends.
- Work hard. The most successful people are generally the hardest workers.
- Be humble. You will have successes in life. Recognize the help that you have received.
- Own and operate a business. Cut your own path in life.
- Don’t put yourself in a situation that will be hard to recover from.
- Be respectful. Specifically, of women and authority.
- Be empathetic. Never sit in judgement of others.
- Always do your best. If you commit to something, do what it takes to be successful.
- Never let the fear of failure undermine what you want to accomplish.
- Beware of who you trust. Most people have good intentions.
- Let people earn your friendship. Once they have done so, remain loyal.
- Take a breath before you make a decision. Analysis does not always equate to paralysis.
- Take it slow with the ladies. This will be hard but it is necessary.
- When you financially make it, pretend like you haven’t.
- Adequately prepare yourself for anything you deem important.
- Never be afraid to ask for help.
- Choose the right mentors.
- Be disciplined in your life pursuits. There are many distractions. Ignore the noise.
- Apologize when you are wrong.
- Help people who cannot help themselves.
- Be charitable but cautious with your money.
- Say, “please”, “thank you” and “you’re welcome” when appropriate.
- Don’t idolize anyone.
- Learn something new every day.
- Don’t let your emotions dictate how you perform.
- Take the time to enjoy what the world offers. Life moves fast.
- Move around or through your adversaries.
- Always believe in yourself and never quit.
